In this month's article, The Devil Made Me Do It! Really? Practicing Patience, I discuss what it takes to appreciate that the ability to be patient is about a willingness to be patient.
In Tips for Nurturing Ourselves as we Nurture Others, I offer thoughts regarding how easy it is to focus on nurturing others at the risk of avoiding taking care of ourselves and what happens to us when we avoid self-nurturing.
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The Devil Made Me Do It! Really? Practicing Patience
Patience is an attribute most of us admire in others and wish we had more of. Every day there are countless opportunities to practice patience. Whether we are driving, waiting in line, or are served by someone who moves or reacts slower than we would like, we have a choice whether or not we practice patience.
We, alone, are responsible for our choice. Yes, regardless of our situation, that means our response is up to us. If we are rushing and someone takes their time, and we are rushed, our verbal AND our non-verbal language indicates not only how we feel inside, but also, how we feel about the other person.
Of course, there are many situations where we feel our patience is tested. But how we react, if we roll our eyes, exhale in audible frustration, raise our voice, or spew an insult, is a reflection of who WE are, NOT who the other person is. WE are each responsible for our own behavior.
A Good Daily Habit
Take Time To Notice
Over time, we may take for granted qualities that we value in others. We can change our relationships when we become conscious of noticing these qualities. After we notice we can remind ourselves to select ONE thing that we appreciate or admire about someone who is close to us. We can find ways to tell them; specifically, how much a particular attribute or characteristic means to us, why we value it, or how it influences us.
When we notice and then share such observations directly with the person, it accentuates our appreciation of them and their contribution to our lives or the lives of others.
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Tips for Nurturing Ourselves as we Nurture Others
As friends, we support people we care about with encouragement, empathy, and enthusiasm.
We remind our partners of their worth, their talent, their ability to take risks and achieve their goals.
As parents we help our children discover their strengths as we encourage them to develop interests, passions, and expertise in those areas.
As adult children of aging parents we focus on fostering independence and maintaining dignity as their abilities and confidence decline.
We nourish others.
How do we nourish ourselves? When we discover something that brings joy to our own lives, we can make a concerted effort to include it, make a space for it, revisit it, for no other reason than this: IT NURTURES US and this is reason enough. Our mental, physical, emotional and spiritual health can be compromised when we neglect finding our own "nourishment."
Here are additional tips to consider:
We can give ourselves 15 minutes of undivided attention everyday.
We can allow ourselves permission to feel all our feelings without judgment of them.
We can declutter our personal space and create room for new energy.
We can be conscious of the harvest of our lives. As we think about ourselves, our relationships, and our work we can review the parts of our lives that are "bearing fruit."
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Theory, Winston Flowers, Moffly Media, and artist, Janet Slom, have teamed up to create a night to remember. Fashion, Flowers and Art will join to inspire a spirit of generosity and giving. A portion of the evening's proceeds will be donated to JumpStart in order to help pre-school, low-income children develop the language and literacy skills they will need to succeed.
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Jumpstart's proven curriculum helps children develop the language, literacy, and socio-emotional skills they need to be ready for school, setting them on a path to close the achievement gap before it is too late.
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www.jstart.org/donate. Over one million children live below the poverty level in the U.S. This shameful situation must change. Each of us has a responsibility to repair our world. Let us eliminate the 2-year achievement gap that exists between children from low income and those from middle income neighborhoods when they begin kindergarten!
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DALE V. ATKINS Ph.D. is a licensed psychologist,
lecturer and commentator in the media who
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She has more than twenty-
years of experience and focuses on living a
life, parenting, aging well, managing stress,
work transitions, family connections and healthy
Dr. Atkins is the author
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Their Private Thoughts about their Private
Families and their Hearing-Impaired
OK, You're My Parents
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